This week we’re diving deep into two very big things. First, and Fruchtwein exciting, John finally had Pimpern with J! We go into all the Feinheiten and find out how its different, how he feels after and how EDV affected Nikki. Then we talk about a fight we had after the fact. but its Elend about what you might guess!
We are wirklich so happy to be back! We have so much to catch up on this episode. We look back on all of Ur dating adventures, look forward to where we are heading hinein our relationship, dish all about Konferenz the meta-mours Klammer aufand all the emotions that came with) and John shares his poly new year’s resolution!
We Calciumn’t believe we’ve opened Ur marriage for three whole months! Hinein this episode, we cover everything we’ve done right. everything we’d do differently and where we think we’re headed now. John gives some advice to 3 months ago Nikki. and she returns the favor. And, of course, we dish on Ur biggest surprises — good and bad. And we laughed. Of course we laughed!
This week Nikki has been feeling really disconnected, John goes on another great Verabredung and we tackle a tricky Lage: what to do about dating exes. Nikki & John Magnesiumsilikathydrat about Nikki’s date with ‘the big Indian dude’ and how it ended up being different from other dates she’s been on. And, Nikki shares her FAVORITE question for difficult feelings of all kinds!
This week, John had a magical second Stelldichein, Nikki got really serious with A. Klammer aufYes! Nikki had Pimpern with a woman for the very first time!schlieГџende runde Klammer And, the two of us snuck away for a very sexy, very relaxing, very much needed weekend away.
In week 10, John has a big first Rendezvous, Nikki brings A to the house and John & Nikki have yet another big and very draining fight. Informationstechnologie is a long hard week. We’re pretty glad its over.
Hinein week 9, we think back to our very first conversations about opening up our relationship, talk about the Crux two weeks of our dating life and reflect on what the kink episode has meant for our relationship. and our sex life!
This week John and Nikki open up about John’s kink, including all the history, baggage and how they hope to move forward. Warning: spoilers: John’s kink is autogynephilia, or AGP, which is the idea of transforming into being a woman and having Geschlechtsakt as a woman. We discuss his sexual addiction, his draw to cross Vinaigrette and submissive Coitus, his gender dysphoria, his challenges with his gender identity and his tough decision around gender transitions and becoming a transwoman. Finally, we tackle what his sexual identity looks like today, what elektronische Datenverarbeitung means hinein the context of Ur relationship and what Informationstechnologie could mean for the later. Its a long one.
Nikki & John beginning by answering a tough question from one of you! Then we open up about our Trockentest with kinky Liebesakt Klammer aufInformationstechnik had been a while!) and finally we both gush about repeat dates. We also ask what elektronische Datenverarbeitung means to beginning developing intimacy with other people and how we will handle EDV together.
John & Nikki ask the question, 6 weeks in, do we actually want to have an open marriageEta We ask each other this question because of a comment from John, without any discussion inside advance. We discuss all kinds of flavors of non-monogamy, including open relationships, swinging, kink based relationships, polyamory and the costs and benefits of monogamy.